Remember when we were kids, but I got to say a bad word?
Many of us have said, "watch their language." When I was a child, never really understood what it meant. As an adult and a therapist, I have come to appreciate life a new meaning to "see your own language" when it comes to change ours.
The language we use when we are on how to solve problems of great impact on our ability to cope with change.
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For example, many people who talk about "removal". Sounds good, right? But stop and think for a moment the word "forgiveness".
If we lose something that has affected our brain wants to do next? Thus we find what we lost.
Impossible because so many people to recover part to lose weight?
A better way to get rid of unwanted changes in weight, ie talk, "someWeight. "
Although I realize that this may be a oversimplitication weight, it is a gross simplification of the language.
Some people may say that is just semantics. Maybe, but my answer is that it's all semantics. This is due to our brain as the language of process.
A brain like a computer works: refuse and waste.
Almost everything we buy comes with an owner's manual. The issue of training is to use the brain that no one has given usManual.
How many of us when a new opportunity presented to our lives, say something like: "I never would do in that position?"
We say these words and then think, our brain
In the book Illusions by Richard Bach is a quote that applies here: "to discuss your limits and you must keep it."
Just a simple change in language, such as: "see the time if I could do it," makes a significant difference in how our brain reacts. Our brainBegin to find ways to meet the challenge, instead of looking for reasons that this is not.
Another way in which we observe in our language is the use of the phrase "I". Think about how you feel in the morning when you wake up and say, get up "I need to go to work and today."
Think about how you feel when you said: "I go to work today." See the difference? Our brains respond to natural negative to positive and have"Coming."
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